I must move on and experience new relationship after my divorce.
I shouldn’t:
Compare new person to my ex-wife
Start a weird relationship, like: Only for sex, too young, too old, etc
Mix finances too early
Overshare too soon
Let loneliness drive decisions
Introduce new partners to your close circle too quickly
Neglect your personal growth: Avoid making the relationship your sole focus
Compromise your standards: Don’t settle for less than you deserve just to avoid being single.
Use dating as revenge: Dating to make your ex jealous is unfair to both you and your new partner.
Rely solely on online dating: Balance digital platforms with real-world social opportunities.
Stay in toxic relationships: End things quickly if you sense a relationship is harmful or unhealthy.
Lose sight of your independence: Maintain your hobbies, friendships, and routines even when dating.
I should:
Be honest
Be transparent
Take things slow, take my time, don’t rush into something serious
Pay attention to red flags:
Controlling behaviour
Lack of respect for boundaries
Narcissism
Dishonesty
Be looking for Friendship rather than romantic relationship
Be upfront about what I am looking for: Casual relationship, sex and have someone who is safe and caring
Communicate with her: Practice open, honest and respectful communication, Pay attention to their words and actions, to ensure compatibility and trustworthiness
Meet people in safe environments: public places and groups
Make sure our long term goals align with each other
Keep trusted friends in the loop, to increase safety
Stay open-minded about meeting people through different avenues like events, apps, or mutual friends
Avoid using dating as a way to fill a void left by your divorce
With or without relationship, I should prioritize my well-being: Engage in activities that boost my mental and physical health, such as exercise, meditation, or hobbies.